how we met
This is the story of how i met my other half
I already had a boyfriend. My other half and I were working toghether at the factory. He liked me from the first day he saw me but didn’t say anything because, first, he knew i had another bf, and second, hethought there was still something between my ex and I (i came in italy with my ex and a very good friend of ours), so he acted like nothing was going on.
We were working toghether for several days. At forst he gave me a very very bad impression.. he was always joking, always laughing at pther people, always mocking them (the ones who did not deserve too much, a lot of ‘not so good’ people came to work at the campaign..) so i thought that that’s all he can do.. but i had a lot of fun (especially when we laught at our boss
she annoyed us a lot at first..)
Little by little i kind of began to like him. He gained a lot of my respect when ho gave me his phone number (insted of asking for mine, as a lot of other people did in the factory and i got sick of saying no… ). He told me to give him a call when i’d like to go out and see the town (i only knew the road to the buss and the road back home..).
I wanted to call him but i was a bit ashamed. I searched for a pretext but.. still i didn’t call
One day we talked on the internet. He said he’ll be going out with an italian friend and asked me to come along, just to have a drink. I said yes
Unfortunately he had to work extra hours the exact day and i was actually scared that at 10 o’clock he’ll be to tired to go out so i went to pick him up at work, with the pretext of going to pick up my other friend that worked on the same shift. So.. i was happy to find out he was not at all tired
We got off the buss and went to meet with the other people. They picked us up with the car. We went for a drink and then they took us home.
On the way back, we were 4 people in the backseat, so we were a bit crowded. I was staying very close to him and i felt like putting my head on his shoulder, but… again, i was embarrassed
That’s when i realised i really like him


In my own experience, first impression never last and i believe you also found out about it. Great to know that you change your impression about him.
I don’t remember how i met my first gf but i remember my first paycheck
I dont agree with the guy above because if on your first impression you act like an idiot or your having a bad day the other person might completely judge you on that first impression and could always just picture you as that person
Yes they always say first impressions count the most but I think its the impression you give after a long time is the most important
Of course its better if you make a good first impression but if you dont its not set in stone
I also think same first impression is not last. I felt it that’s why.
Thats love of first sight, isnt it?
A lot of the time though I think your first impressions are wrong well mine are anyway! If you remember when you first met someone and then years later you may be really good friends or bf / gf and they are never what you expected
So if you have a bad first impression is it really hard to change someones opinion of you?
Hi Bethany, I think it is quite hard to change someones opinion at the initial impression but its not impossible!
Lol I’d rather not remember my first pay check!
This reminds me of my first GF. We felt like annoyed with each other at first then as months went by our love became apparent.
LOL ^^ it reminds me on my teenage love…
thank you
Aww this is so sweet, I like this, there isnt enough romance in the world today
I gotta say that I agree with Jordans about first impressions lasting at least most of the time.