Gossip
Comments(32) Everyone gossips. I admit i do it sometimes, it’s innevitable. Yoo talk with your friends, relatives, lover and eventually you talk about someone you just knew, someone from your past, someone you met with yesterday or whatever. You gossip without knowing it!
But there’s a difference between meaningless gossip and the one someone does because of hate. That one is pretty dangerous.
In the past year i met some people who do this. They gossip with hate and anger, they try to make others see how my friends or even life partner are a bad choice for.. anything. They talk bad things, the even lie just to make me hate them too.
Well, it doesn’t work for me. Some stupid words won’t do that for me.
I have persons i care about and i can even count them, they are few. I know them for some time now and since i keep in touch it means i actually like their presence! I don’t need some outsider to tell me how wrong i am.
Actually, i pitty those gossipers. I pitty them for not having anything else better to do. Trying to make me dislike someone is noones business. It’s my choice who i make friends with.
It’s actually sad how some people occupy their time. In my opinion they make a fool of themselves and make me stay away from them. I sure don’t want to be another subject for their gossipy hobby. Because this is what happens. If they are able to say such bad things or even lie about one of my close ones, why can’t they do it to me too?
Yeah, these people are not worthy to get along with.
Better stay away from these people. You cannot trust them and spreading gossip is just plain unhealthy. We all have other (and better) things to do
Yeah, these people are not worthy to get along with.
Some people are habitual of making castle in the air. I hate such peoples.
I hate these kinda of people who do this. Its better to stay away from these people.
Yes. I know people who do that. They just gossip endlessly. They do that because they see themselves a lot better than the others. Its pitiful.
I believe in karma, therefore I’m confident that those spouting a bunch of negative stuff will get it back ten fold. Sure, we may all tell an occasional story about another, but a consistent diet of it will create problems down the line.
I actually lost a very good friend because of this recently. She believed the nasty gossip and is now out of my life.
Yeah. I know people who do that. They just gossip endlessly. They do that because they see themselves a lot better than the others.
if you want gossip someone talk about something positive because we cannot avoid talk about other people.
Gossip is evil. It rarely does any good. Tiger woods is getting a taste of that right now!
We should treat them differently that is we could gain message from them….by given and take policy.But meanwhile we have to careful in our words which should be secrets.Otherwise all are human every one has a negative side.so be positive towards all.
Its better to stay away from these people.u cannot that trust and spreading and gossip plan is not powerfull………….
Trusting anybody is like having you hand him your keywords and all the stuff. You have to make him pass several “filtration” prior in trusting him.
well, I think gossip is a good way to spend free time but we have to limit the gossips..
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i have to say that Gossip is evil, keep away these people, and always keep touch in with high quality persons in your life.
Hi Adry, I’m hoping you post soon
As for gossip, well, you need to develop a pair of thick ears? People can gossip but you don’t have to believe to what they say.
Have your own mind.
I think girls are more professional in gossip than men this is very interesting topic to share with every one thanks.
gossip about positive things is good choice, gossip about negative things is a disaster. peoples who likes gossip negatives things won’t ever success
Trusting anybody is like having you hand him your keywords and all the stuff. You have to make him pass several “filtration” prior in trusting him.
I hate gossipers. It’s just insane how little people have to talk about themselves. They’d rather gossip about others. Sad.
yes I agree, there are some people who likes to talk bad things. For me they’re not worthy of my trust or even my attention. i just ignore them because i think they’re just insecure. lol..
gossiping is also one way of sharing one’s good thoughts and experiences with other… but, there are some people who use it in a other way.
people who gossip about other personal matters should be warned. or else ,they won’t stop this.they should know the outcome of their gossiping.
we may all tell an occasional story about another, but a consistent talk of it will create problems down the line all over time.
Rumor or talk of a personal, sensational, or intimate nature can ruin someones life.
A person who habitually spreads intimate or private rumors or facts is a bad to get along with.
I completely agree with your view. Occasional meaningless gossip about a person is a human trait which most do at some point of time. But hate or negative gossip is pretty much akin to character assassination. I guess such gossiping persons may be affected by some complex or plain old narrow minded paradigm. Better to stick around positive & energetic people.
I hate gossips! People shouldn’t mind others business.
Once, a wise man said, “However, let none of YOU suffer as murderer or a thief or an evildoer or as a busybody in other people’s matter…” Based on this, we can say that people who loved to gossip negative things about others, they as the same as murderer or a thief…
In employment, dating, politics and a thousand other things, where there are winners, there are losers. Where there are losers, there are people who are going to hate the winners. As a species, we have learned in our bones that to lose too many times is the same thing as death to us and to our children.
In our society, sometimes death is defined as poverty. Sometimes death in our society, always decreed by the winners, is, actual death. In America we have more prisoners (losers) than any other country in the world.
150 years ago, the grandchildren of those who were willing to kill to be winners now have 95% of all the stocks traded on the New York Stock exchange. Those folks consider everyone not in the upper five percent of the nation financially, losers. And, they would kill again, DO kill again and imprison……. Whatever it takes to keep what they have.
I believe in karma, therefore I’m confident that those spouting a bunch of negative stuff will get it back ten fold. Whatever it takes to keep what they have.
I SO AGREE WITH YOU!! I have to tell you, I ran into this very scenerio with a “friend” just a few months back. As a social worker/counselor, I tend to see people who act so viscious to just have some really huge issues in their life. And, that could VERY WELL be the case. However, since this one particular issue with a former friend who was being SO Mean, I have begun to second guess my former perspective. I truely believe that in SOME scenerios people are out to just be cruel for the sake of being cruel. Rid those people from your life- they are like chains who will wiegh you down!