friendship is also good..

My friend, Ramona, wrote an article some time ago about the concept of love. The main idea is that you can’t be lovers if you can’t be friends. I totally agree.

People change.. a lot, and after a long time of being together you realize you cannot rely everytime on each other it kind of becomes awkward. Sometimes it is better to say ‘stop’ and rewind a little bit.

I’m only sorry i realized this today. But it’s all good. Friendship is something you can’t kick away and its better to see this than live a lie or suffer more later.

It’s not the same of course.. usually you first become friends and after a while you date and begin to have feelings.. i think this is why the reverse is more difficult, but i like to think it’s not impossible.

Friendship is good. It is the best thing that can happen after a long term relationship. Maybe after a while the feelings can come back, maybe not, but anyhow it is always good lo live a small door opened :)

4 opinions

  1. [...] Original post by Adriana [...]

  2. Liebesgedichte on October 10th, 2008

    Friendship is good, but sometimes to stay friends can hurt one side over time.

  3. linux certification on May 21st, 2009

    For love friendship is required till you dont get involved in complete love with each other.

  4. Jerry @ vintage wedding dress on August 29th, 2009

    Hi there! Well, I have something to say. I believe that friendship is greater than every and any relationship. We can maintain every relation if we behave like friends. I have some friends with whom I share everything. I think “A friend in need is a friend indeed”. By the way, thanks for explaining value of friends.

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